By Daniel Uduh

*This article will be more beneficial for married couples.

Making love is one of those pleasant things existing among the living creatures. Every healthy human and animal find it pleasurable and have this endless craving for it. It is seriously no one’s fault. I guess it is one of those tricks used by our maker to keep the procreation process in a continuous motion. As a result, it is meant to be an everlasting occurrence among the living, since reproduction becomes impossible as soon as making love ceases. This is so especially for living things involved in sexual reproduction, and not asexual.

As we all know from time immemorial, man has never ceased to misuse anything within their control power. Sex is not an exclusion in this. We see people abuse sex now and then, forgetting the fact that it is made for a purpose. But that is by the way.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed. But the pleasure we can get each time we make love can be eluded when we make love wrongly. Doing it right gives us the right benefits that accompany it. Let’s take a look at those mistakes people do that makes them lose interest in getting involved.

1. People find love-making uninteresting when they are in a hit-and-run situation. You don’t rush sex! Look, the body is like a machine. You just have to start gradually with a romance, to get it ready. There should not be any reason why one person is ready and the other is not. Both parties should be ready to start the game.

2. The best temperature for sex still remains low(cool) temperature. High(hot) temperature is not favorable for sex. It is not like one cannot have sex when the room is hot but you will definitely not find it enjoyable because you are going to be doing two things at a time. Having sex and wiping out sweat off your body. You will definitely get tired easily. Unfortunately, this is the situation of most countries where a steady power supply is a problem.

3. Having distractions while making love have a huge way of affecting your performance negatively. It is not a time to be having your boiling pot of soup on the burner. It is not a time to be receiving and sending calls with your cell phone. It is not time to be reading a book or watching a TV program. It is also not a time to be asking questions and be expecting a genuine positive answer. It is a time to be devoted to each other for a stronger union.

4. Forgetting to lock your door is another mistake people do most times. As simple as it is, it can be very embarrassing, seeing someone bash into your room while you are naked-busy with your woman. People just shut their doors and get carried away, and you just cannot blame your child who believes he has access to every room in his daddy’s house. Lock the door and chose whether to open or not.

5. Because love-making should be emotional and affectionate, soft music like blues, R and B, and classical, can be helpful. Classical can be fast most times but do go well. Soft music will be a good option for people who like getting involved with music. Playing rough music is not ideal since it is not a battle contest. For those who would prefer to have a quiet and serene atmosphere, it is also a good idea to be in such a climate too.

What other mistake do you know?

Thank you for reading. See you here next time.