By Daniel Uduh

I started observing the love for married/elderly men by younger women some years back. Of course, it is a situation that is expected to call for questioning and astonishment. Every normal thinking person would have taught it less to see such happen. Because, by mere observation, younger men are more healthy, neat, good-looking, handsome, trendy, and futuristic. But unfortunately, these qualities did not make any difference, as the reverse has become the case. Younger/single men are now kept at the side and considered to be less interesting to have a relationship with. While the elderly/married men are been preferred. It is no more a new thing seeing elderly/married men (whose wife probably is not within the town) with younger women at shopping malls, restaurants, bars, offices, and cinemas. Sometimes, you will even mistake the relationship to be a father-daughter relationship. It is a choice they both made to be together, and as a matter of fact, there is nothing anybody can do about it.

All these made me begin to wonder why married/elderly men have become what younger women prefer. So, I decided to go do my findings. I started by taking a one-on-one interrogation approach on younger ladies, asking them why they would prefer elderly/married men to younger/single men. A good number of them said they would prefer the opposite, while most of them gave me reasons why they would prefer elderly/married men to younger/single men. Below are what they said.

1. Caring and generosity

From the reports, I learned one of the reasons they prefer elderly/married men is because of their kind and caring way of handling women. Women find it easier to get whatever they want from married men and are being given much attention (when sick) by elderly men. But younger/single men are always not like that. Younger/single men would always want to know what they need the money for and would ask a lot of questions before they get the money(that’s normal, I thought).

2. Stress and frustration

They also reported that the elderly/married men are less stressful and frustrating in a relationship. They are the real gentlemen, not the younger/single men. The elderly/married men always want an outing. They are ready to give a lady a good time outside the home. But the younger/single men are always busy and go outing a few times or would even prefer her coming to his place( that shouldn’t be a problem, I said to myself).

3. Experienced

Elderly/married men are more experienced in handling a woman. They know what they can do to make a woman happy and they always make sure they do it. But this is not the case for younger/single men. They said younger men need to learn from the elderly and married men because they know a lot that single men don’t know( was like, oh my God!).

4. Calm and collective

This is also another attribute that was given to elderly/married men. They are said to be organized, cool-headed, and collective. They don’t fix appointments with a lady and wouldn’t show up. In most cases, they even get there earlier than the lady. That’s their level of been organized. Young/single men would either come late most times or not even show up. She said, “you will take your time as a lady, prepare, do all your makeup, get to the place, only for you to get a call and be told, please I am sorry it won’t work out today (oh, sorry dear, I pleaded)”

5. Romantic

The elderly/married man does not give them much trouble on the bed. They spend most of the time in the room on romance. Because of their age and stage in life, they would prefer taking it slowly and gently. Younger/single men are rough. If you are not careful you will fall sick after your encounter with them. Younger/single men are only good for those ladies that like sex and want it rough( that sounds true, I said to myself).

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